Gospel
14 The disciples of John approached Jesus and said, “Why do we and the Pharisees fast much, but your disciples do not fast?” 15 Jesus answered them, “Can the wedding guests mourn as long as the bridegroom is with them? The days will come when the bridegroom is taken away from them, and then they will fast.”
Introduction
Matthew 9:14-15 records a pivotal moment in Jesus’ ministry. The disciples of John came to Him and asked, “Why do we and the Pharisees fast often, but Your disciples do not fast?” Jesus replied, “Can the friends of the bridegroom mourn as long as the bridegroom is with them? But the days will come when the bridegroom will be taken away from them, and then they will fast.” This passage invites us to reflect on the meaning of Jesus’ presence, the practice of fasting, and our relationship with Him.
Historical Background
At the time of Jesus, fasting was a common religious practice among Jews, especially among the Pharisees and followers of John the Baptist. Fasting marked periods of mourning, repentance, and seeking God’s favor. It was considered an expression of devotion and humility before God. When Jesus’ disciples did not observe these fasts, it raised questions about their commitment and the nature of Jesus’ teachings. Jesus used the imagery of a wedding feast—a time of joy rather than sorrow—to explain why His followers were not fasting while He was with them.
Theological Context
Jesus’ response shifts the focus from ritual observance to relationship. As the “bridegroom,” He signifies a time of celebration and intimacy with God. Fasting, in this context, is not dismissed but given its true purpose: longing for God’s presence. When Jesus is physically present, there is joy and fullness; when He departs, fasting becomes a means of seeking and awaiting His return. This passage teaches that spiritual practices are meant to deepen our connection with Christ, not merely fulfill tradition.
Learning Lessons
Matthew 9:14-15 encourages us to live in awareness of Christ’s presence. There are seasons for celebration and seasons for seeking. We learn that spiritual disciplines, like fasting, are valuable when rooted in love and longing for Jesus, not just routine. The passage reminds us that our faith is relational, not ritualistic, and invites us to reflect on how we approach God in daily life.
Reflection for the Day
Today, consider the presence of Jesus in your life. When you are aware of His nearness, let joy fill your heart. In times of absence or longing, let devotion and spiritual discipline draw you closer to Him. Ask yourself: Am I living as a friend of the bridegroom, rejoicing in His love, or am I fasting without purpose? Let this passage guide you to authentic faith, rooted in relationship with Christ.
Poem
In the Presence of the Bridegroom
When the bridegroom walks beside me,
Joy flows like wine, hearts are free.
Fasts turn to feasts, shadows to light,
In His presence, love shines bright.
Yet when the silence finds my soul,
Longing, waiting for Him to make whole,
May my seeking, my fasting, my prayer,
Be a whisper: “Lord, I know You are there.”
Prayer
Lord Jesus,
Our Bridegroom, thank You for the gift of Your presence. In moments of joy, help us to celebrate Your love. In seasons of longing, teach us to seek You with sincere hearts. Let our spiritual practices be expressions of our desire to know You more. Guide us to live in relationship, not ritual, and fill us with hope while we await Your return.
Amen.
Pericope
III. Ministry and Mission in Galilee
THE QUESTION ABOUT FASTING
Matthew 9:14-17
Gospel Acclamation
Seek good and not evil so that you may live, and the Lord will be with you.
Source: Conversation with Copilot
